Discussed at connections-20080112
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Have to have a generative conversation before getting to strategic conversation, or else people just stumbled over their boundaries.
Bela brought David Nichols, who wrote On Dialogue, as the editor of the book, to a conversation.
Discussed at connections-20080113
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Meeting once or twice a year, for maybe a year. No formal agenda or topics.
At some point, something would bring something conflictual … eventually to something offensive.
Point of dialogue was to back off, and then not try to win, to explore the major difference.
It was an unexplored assumption, at such a deep level so that they felt that they had to discuss.
Things that people felt deeply, but not enough for people to surface.
Bela H Banathy felt that the precursor to the conversation was a shared world view: need a generative part of the conversation, before having the strategic view.
If tried to do strategic conversation first, would then stumble on the assumptions.
If people just come with assumptions and differences first, would then end up in compromise.
Bela H Banathy was not able to continue to more types of dialogue, because of his advanced age.